On a pat-on-the-back-to me note, I think I do well giving each child the attention she needs and deserves since it does have to be split.
All that being said, I do not understand why people (who have the ability) would only have one child. That seems ridiculous to me. Not only do you have the spoiled factor, or the fact that when the day comes that Mom and Dad die, the poor child has to deal by him/herself, but dude, siblings are the cutest things EVER!! I mean, of course they are going to fight and get each other in trouble, etc, but they LOVE EACH OTHER SOOO MUCH!!! Hailey is the BEST little helper! She loves holding her sister and kissing her and telling her good night. Avery stares at her big sister and watches her so often. I often imagine a few years down the road when Avery is Hailey's age now and will want to do everything her big sister does; go to school, play with friends and so much more. Then further down the road, how Hailey will be in High School and Avery will think she is the coolest thing ever....okay, okay, I'll stop now. But seriously, just like having one child is rewarded by the first smiles and giggles, having a second child is rewarded by seeing the admiration they have for one another!